A question that we phone sex Femdoms often hear is “Is my penis too small, Mistress?” The men who ask this question usually expect a simple answer, but the truth is, there’s rarely a simple answer. It’s actually a rather complex question when it comes right down to it.
Barring instances of micropenis, which is defined in scientific literature as a penis that is less than two inches long when fully erect but otherwise is normally shaped (no deformities), the question of whether or not one’s cock is adequate mostly depends on the woman he’s asking. Each woman has her own preferences. What may be huge for a woman who is built in such a way that she can’t handle a very large cock may be tiny to a size queen.
So while it’s not a popular answer among erotic humiliation enthusiasts, the fact of the matter is that whether or not a man’s dick is a satisfactory size is mostly a question of personal preference. However, we will explore average dick sizes and other relevant factors in this essay. Then, you can decide for yourself whether your equipment is worthy of a phone sex Mistress or not.
Different studies have come up with variable “average” penis sizes, according to the informative but not-necessarily-accurate Wikipedia article on human penis size. As can be expected, studies in which the participants self-report their dick sizes report a higher average than those studies where penis sizes are measured by researchers! Wikipedia does state, however, that the mean erect human penis size (derived from the compilation of data from several studies) is somewhere in the neighborhood of 5.1 to 5.9 inches.
Contrary to popular male belief, penis circumference (width) is a lot more important to a woman’s sexual pleasure than dick length. According to the same Wikipedia article, the average erect human penis circumference is about 4.9 inches.
Naturally, a Wikipedia article is not a scientific publication, so the numbers should be taken with a grain of salt. The article does give the results of several studies within it, though, which makes it a convenient point of reference for the man who is curious as to whether or not his cock size merits small cock humiliation.
Small penis humiliation, or SPH as it’s often known on the Internet, is a form of verbal humiliation in which a man is berated for how small his penis is. This is usually expanded to include references to his lack of masculinity and lack of usefulness to the woman because of his lack of cock size. Ultimately, it’s up to you and your Humiliatrix as to whether you qualify for SPH.
Traditional wisdom among women who are size queens runs something like this: “Is your penis too small? If you have to ask, the answer is ‘Yes!'” This may very well be true when dealing with a Mistress who prefers very large cocks. Even if your penis is average or larger than average, if she enjoys cocks that are upwards of 9 inches, then you may still be eligible for small penis humiliation. On the other hand, if your Mistress prefers more average-sized cocks, your 4-incher may be plenty big for her.
The best way to find out is to ask the lady in question, rather than trying to figure it out yourself. A Mistress, an alpha female, is never afraid to speak her mind when asked her opinion. She will tell you straight whether or not your penis is adequate for her use or not. If she thinks you deserve to use your cock for her pleasure, she’ll tell you so. If she thinks you deserve small penis humiliation, she’ll be glad to tell you that as well. A dominant woman will not pussyfoot around the truth to preserve your ego. If asked, she will most certainly give her opinion, be it a favorable one or an unfavorable one.
With these things in mind, you should be able to have a very fulfilling domination phone sex experience, regardless of your penis size. So feel free at any time to ask your Mistress if she thinks you’re in need of small penis humiliation. We guarantee that she has an opinion on the subject and will happily voice it if asked.
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